by Olga Pyshnyak-Lawrence

Between chores and to-do’s, I managed to quickly slip into the Lyndon House in Athens—literally as I was driving from point A to B. My soul was seduced by a craving to do something random, something passionate, something to fill me up, even though I didn’t know why at the time.

The modern art is not my cup of tea, generally. Anybody can be an artist nowadays, that’s true, albeit not a very good one. My soul craves beauty and something long lasting…and that’s one of the reasons I love the past so much, not simply for the curious stories and historical facts, but for the care and appreciation given to beautiful and elaborate objects of admiration or daily use.

I walked quickly past the modern objects screaming on the walls and straight to the historical building attached. A reverent hush falls over me as I enter the space that housed families and generations. Their dramas and tragedies, hopes and crushed dreams… I can envision the hustle and bustle of their everyday, their stunning surroundings. This family was well off and could enjoy that extra morsel of luxury.

But what pierced my heart and soul so desperately as I looked upon the remnants of lives before me was the very painful and thought-provoking question: “What will my children or grandchildren say about me 100 years from now?” or will they say anything at all? And then, the next question begs my attention, “What do I want them to say about me?” Will anything remain of me? Will someone someday look upon the remnants of my life, the ashes of my quests, and ponder my existence?

What will I leave behind to the generations that are to come? What legacy will survive after I am long gone? Of course, I’ve rambled down the less traveled road…and so I mused…

One day, I will die and this is not a thought we contemplate often, but perhaps one should… To live a life worth living, one must do it knowing it will all end one day. We do not hold forever captive. Occasionally, one must revisit the unconscious priorities programmed into our daily systems.

What do you want YOUR children and grandchildren to say about you 100 years from now? Or should you even care?

I do.

In fact, I care very deeply. And this forces me to revisit my list and rankings of priorities in my life.

I want my children and my grandchildren to say:

Everything I do, I teach my children to do the same, consciously or subconsciously.

And they will do the same with their very own.

And here is the grand idea. Do you realize that you, yes you, sitting down right now at your table, on your couch, wherever the heck you may be, you are directly connected to the generations coming after you? What is the inheritance you leave behind?

I want my grandchildren and great grandchildren and so forth, to live BOLDLY, DANCE to their own convictions, and BE FREE.

In essence, I want them to BE FREE to DANCE BOLDLY. That is the inheritance I will leave behind.

And between now and then, I will show them the way, teach them how it’s done.